Embarrassment
Elements and Protection
There are two things everybody deals with. They are physical
protection from the elements of weatherized nature and spiritual protection from inordinate affection. In all the various
areas of influential interaction these two are involved. Sorting out the balances, the details, is why most people are confused
and disoriented with not only what to do as the right way to go, but also what to do to maintain self-assuredness. This is
where the two, natural protection and supernatural protection, find the fragmenting desire for removal of the objectionable
and consistent gathering of personal satisfactions to interact.
For any focused and/or calculated or spontaneously reactive
attention(s) to transpire there must be anybody’s acknowledgement that he or she is not self-contained. Being physically
separate from others and at the same time dependent upon others for survival brings one to see shared and individual responsibilities
as simultaneously group reliant and self-governing. Contingent in anything is the constant moderation of ‘me’
or ‘them’. So it is when it comes to how embarrassment is both severely hampering and jovially inconsequential
whether it be in a small private matter or known world-wide.
This is because, as people have their distances, various
cultures, and personal rights to do as wished, there is a common sense of private personal humanity shared throughout. The
more inclined a person is to hide from embarrassment the less a person is equipped to deal with their own, as well as others’,
inconsistencies. Of course this is also the ultimate embarrassment; that a person is needful rather than self possessed. Embarrassment
can undermine one’s confidence, ruin prospective careers, and destroy relationships, businesses, or even a life.
We believe others are thinking what they are not while expecting
them to not think what we do. The fears of the unknown, projected onto the depths of the sea, the far reaches of space, or
perhaps in avoidance of destructive cultures and lifestyles feeds the internal fears of embarrassment where we expect those
in whom we depend to keep secure our community standards to not be embarrassing so that they may not embarrass us. Daily,
we are usually embarrassed any time we look foolish, oafish, or incompetent in public, and in like association we are embarrassed
for others either with compassion or insult.
Embarrassment can stop you dead in your tracks. It is covered
by high expectations for social standing that sets up those who are successful for great public blunders – and includes
disproportionate levels of standards for those ‘less fortunate’ to admire – and, again, opens the doors
for more personal embarrassment for those who are not in the public eye. Reduced capacities for empathy through fears bound
to self-protection give rise to ‘pointing-finger-resentment’ and belligerent standoffish mudslinging. Tired of
that, those unacceptably non-compliant social misfits are banished from acceptance…
There are millions who sincerely believe there is no chance
in hell they will be accepted into God’s heaven; because of what they have allowed, and/or caused in their and others’
lives. The deception there is each and every person that is breathing and has warm blood flowing through his or her veins
(that would be anyone and everyone who is alive), is not devoid of God’s grace in Christ – the natural measure
of faith each person has to at the least survive.
Dejection in one’s considerations, and contempt from
others judging; those combined, is the anti-christ pressures of persuasion that keep failing disoriented people bound to false
reflections about self-worth. We are warned to beware of the rare individual who seems one who cannot be embarrassed because
they represent the rebel spirit that tells us our embarrassment, useful for maintaining social order, is dangerous to peace
and tranquility – dangerous, either but not both, to the wilds of nature or eternal salvation.
We categorize them as over-intelligent, lofty, rude, greedy,
or anything we allow our minds to think that expresses how we might be embarrassed if we were to ‘be as they are’.
That is where the well known concept of soul Redemption is misunderstood. Redemption means that our Created value is accomplished
in Christ; that our severance from His glory is over. It does not mean to own up to being remorsefully/emotionally bound to
sorrow and grief.
Therewith, people are held to false identity. Repentance
means acknowledging release from the bondage that holds guilt appeasement as a way to rectify reimbursement and/or retaliatory
retribution. It is to step away from the wrongs vs. rights, the oppressive burdens of forced compliance to shame, into the
thankful joys of revealed forthright honest liberation – redemption. Repentance is to honestly recognize His ‘price
paid’ policy of appreciation by extending our faith-awareness to those who are yet to see why they become embarrassed.
We have not been taught it is disrespectful to our neighbors
to worry about what they think of us. We have yet to understand what the apostle Paul(?) meant when he said, “Whatever
state you find yourself in therewith to be content.” He was not speaking as much about physical conditions as he was
spiritual soul alignment with others for God’s sake. Accordingly, self-mortifying embarrassment is mostly in our own
emotional thought/mind where our naturally created exuberance in faith has been beaten to the humiliating pulp of submission
to a wayward world estranged from God in Christ.
Jeremiah chapters 30 - 31